7 Ways to Get your Kid to Drop the Video Game…in a Flash
“No. I can’t leave,” my son says, his voice tight and low. “I’m in the middle of a raid!”
These words are from the mouth of my tweener son, twelve years of know-it-all and dedicated gamer of the multiplayer variety. Typically, he shares his two-word vocabulary of “Good” and “K” sent via text from two feet away to my phone. So, I guess I should be crying tears of joy that he actually spoke to me.
I’m in favor of video games so long as they don’t run your life. They can provide opportunities to solve problems with your clan. You can talk to people from Japan or New Zealand. My son tells me it’s kind of like a blog, but with video games.
But when I can’t get beyond the death-grip of his controller and all I hear are raspy, muffled, strained exhalations…you know the kind I mean…I know I’ve lost him. He’s gone to the DARK SIDE!
This is a cry for desperate measures.
I know you’re asking, “How do you bring him back?” because I bet this most certainly has happened to you. Don’t panic. I have methods to break that death grip and bring him back from the darkness.
If you don’t have a kid, I’m sure you can find this information applicable for other areas of your life. I’m sure you can come up with something.
Now for my tips and tricks.
7 Ways to Get Your Kid* to Drop the Video Game…in a Flash
(even if it’s in the middle of a raid):**
- Set off the smoke alarm and feign dire warnings that the house is, indeed, burning down. Don’t forget your ear plugs. You may need to let the alarm sound for a while since your gamer will be wearing those monster headsets. For dramatic effect, fan your arms and burn a piece of toast for the proper smell. That should do the trick.
- Stage a robbery. This is not as complicated as it sounds and your kid will be in just the right frame of mind for this scenario, on edge and ready to respond. Perhaps your next neighbor is bored.
Better yet, a carefree drama student will be more than willing to provide a bonafide acting performance, especially for extra credit. Just pretend to know the teacher.
- Bacon. Prepare a big platter of crispy bacon and place it within visual distance of your gamer. We could just stop this list right here.
- Refuse to serve any food. No, don’t serve that bacon your gamer is begging for and don’t think this is cruel. Assuming your gamer is an able-bodied individual, remember he/she can walk. Don’t worry. Eventually, your gamer will need sustenance.
- Cut the Internet connection. Just say, “What internet? It’s working just fine for me.”
- Flip the breaker switch and shut down the power. In case number 5 is a bust.
- Coordinate with your pet to leave a present. That’s right. Your pet is as frustrated as you and needs attention. It’s likely they’ll help and catch that limp mouse or bloody bird and gift it right onto their lap. If it’s alive, your chances increase by 100 fold. If you have a dog, consider the saliva-infiltrated ball as a sloppy present.
Well, you can always put ice down their pants, record it and put it on YouTube.
Just believe in yourself and anything is possible. You can do this. And may the force be with you.
* May be used for adults.
** Depending on the severity of your problem and how much time you have to devote to it, you may want to combine item numbers to maximize success.
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Amy Reese, former ballerina, now spends her creative energy writing and is currently working on a fantasy novel. In her next life, she hopes to come back as a cat. You can find her at The Bumble Files where she writes flash fiction and about life’s unpredictable moments.
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Number 5 can backfire if they switch to your mobile data plan and stream it that way. You’ll be able to hear your cellular company giggle as the data counter goes *ding-ding-ding* with each gig.
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Good point, Rants. I knew I should have consulted you on this. I’ll have to add an addendum to the list. *hide phones*
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I used to game all day and then suddenly it stopped…I don’t know why…not even Candy Crush. It’s like someone played the 12 step gaming addicts anonymous feed in my sleep one night. Probably the kids, so they could have more Playstation time.
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You got bumped, did ya? It happens. Were you doing it all wrong, too? I’m sure now your time is really freed up.Now you can spend some time with that dog of yours.
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If you don’t game, accidentally spill something on it…shrugooops. No I don’t have kids, but i laughed.
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Yeah, oopsies. Awesome. Thanks!
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Thankfully my kids were and are into actual board games rather than video games, now if I could only detach my husband from the video console.
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Oh, board games. We have lots of those too, not that we ever play them….Well, you can try this list out on him! Let me know how it works out. Good luck.
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The amazing power of cutting the internet connection. You know exactly when it happens too, because all kids in the house freak out at the same time.
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Yep. Everything stops. It’s remarkable, isn’t it? I know that moment. It’s frightening, Ben.
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I know how hard it is for my kids. I feel like I’m on turbo mode when it comes to fixing the internet at home. My kids will turn savage if I don’t.
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Savage, exactly. The pressure is intense. But when you ask them to put on shoes: nothing. The expectations, Ben, they just get stronger everyday.
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Well, there is going to start being a correlation between the two. No shoes, no internet. That will shut them down.
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Haha. That will work. It will be magic!
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I need a magic wand.
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When you find one, I can borrow it?
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Heavens yeah. Actually I have two magic wands. We got them at Universal Studios in Daigon Alley. I need to steal those from my kids and use them on them instead of them using them on me.
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Good luck with that. Maybe when they’re playing their games you can sneak away with them. Oh, we don’t have that attraction yet. It’s good to know you can get them there.
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Yep. When they are playing games, they are pretty oblivious.
And we got those in Florida. I assume you are in California and Universal doesn’t have Harry Potter stuff yet?
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Definitely oblivious. They are truly in a different world.
No, that’s in the works. I saw them working on it when I visited this past summer.
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That’s good that they are finally getting it there. Kind of the opposite on the Transformer ride. I missed it last time I was in Orlando, but it was in California. This time I went it was there though.
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That one is really fun!
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Hahahahaha, I have a six year old who looooooooves playing video games. when he was younger, I used to be able to fool him by plugging the power from the outlet and tell him that his game has a virus. He would look innocently at me and say will the Dr come and fix it? Lol. Now that he’s six, if I tell him there’s a virus, he will go behind the box and check if all the wires are in. Smart kid 🙂
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Will the Dr. come? Oh, precious. Now you have one smart kid. He’s not messing around when problems arise. He’s serious about his games. I know what you’re describing.
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I am a guest over at Long Awkward Pause today where I have advice about getting your kid to drop the video game. You’ll see it’s quite simple. Come on over!
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Haha, excellent pointers to keep in mind for when my college son comes home. Luckily, my youngest isn’t much of a gamer. He prefers practicing his card magic. Then again, getting him away from that isn’t always so easy either, so your tips still apply! 🙂
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Carrie, keep this list handy. Yes, I think this list will work wonders for your magician, unless of course, he has ways to block you with his magic. Give it a go. Let me know how it works out.
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Yes, I suppose there’s always the risk he can make me disappear.
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Oh no, Carrie. That would never happen even if you wanted it to. 🙂 He needs you.
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You’re probably right. But if he disappeared me to a beach for a couple days, I wouldn’t argue.
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Perhaps you could put in a request for me, too. What do you say? Pretty please.
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I’ll give it a try!
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Oh, goody! Thank you, Carrie.
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Love this. How about I never introduce them to games… ever? Am I being overly optimistic? Perhaps…
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Wait. Your kids don’t know about video games? I just can’t imagine. Time will tell, Jen. You better keep this list handy just in case. 🙂
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HA HA! Great advice Amy! I will forward this list on to a few people I know with gamer issues since it isn’t a problem in my house! 🙂
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Oh great, Courtney! Thanks. I hope they find it useful.
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How many of these have you had to resort to?
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Haha. Jay, all of them!
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A few times I disconnected the internet. Problem is that it never made for any fundamental change in the behavior. What I wish is that the damn XBox had never entered the house.
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Maybe you should try these other methods, Mark. Give it a go!
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Well, since he’s now out of the house and off at college, I have no control, but at least I don’t have to listen to the endless gunfire either.
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I am so familiar with that noise, Mark. Oh, and the sound of silence is quite nice. Aww.
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He has headphones he uses sometimes but mostly not. Words can’t describe the psychic pain I experienced having to listen to the endless gunfire. Never hear it now. 😉
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Aww, peace for you!
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This is one of the reasons I’m kind of glad I had daughters. I don’t have to deal with this stuff. I’m sure different horrors are in store for me.
A really good friend of mine is the CEO/inventor of Major League Gaming. In a very small world, that’s like knowing a celebrity.
“Boobs?”
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Yes, everyone tells me girls are tougher. Hormones and all! Yeah, I don’t envy you. Get ready, Mark. Wow, the inventor and CEO of Major League Gaming. That is big time!! Always, boobs…because boobs. Do you really need another explanation?
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No, I guess not. Always boobs is sufficient.
I’m trying to steer both daughters into a gay lifestyle so they don’t have to deal with creepy men but so far I’m failing.
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Gay or not, they still will have the hormonal storm. I hope not really. It was kind of bad for me. Maybe they’ll be fine!
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I think I’ll have to try turning of the electricity to get my son’s attention. But how will I play Mario Kart on the Nintendo? (I do actually play video games…sometimes if the kids aren’t)
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That is a tricky one, Darla. Perhaps this choice is not the best one for you! I recommend starting with #1 and working down the list or starting from the bottom is okay, too. My husband plays, too. He gets mad when our son kicks him off. 🙂
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Can you have your husband take a video of you playing Mario Kart and then post it to the Internet? Because that’s something I’d like to see.
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I’d like to see it, too!
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3rd 1 is good ..
Prepare a big platter of crispy bacon and place it within visual distance of your gamer. We could just stop this list right here.
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Thanks a lot. 🙂
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What if it’s me who needs to drop the video game? Need help here. 😀
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Hahaha. Hmm…that is a tough one. The force will help you, Hanna. I feel it’s strong with you. 🙂
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Number 3 can backfire, providing them with the energy and sustenance to continue gaming, only with greasy hands, leading to the need for a new controller. Too risky a strategy in my opinion.
Try a carpet-bomb strategy like leaving the grid and living in the woods with no power.
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Although, if they are serious gamers, they won’t grease up the controller. They know the value of their equipment. I’m just not sure I’m ready to leave the grid. I like my phone too much. And no Internet?! I don’t know how long I’d last. 🙂
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Don’t you just love it when your friend is playing a video game and you scare the crap out of them? I do. That it my life. That is what I do for fun. Muhahahahha! Watch your backs when your playing video games. I will find you and when I do, I will scare you and put it on youtube!!! WATCH YOUR BACK! I”M COMING!! ( I’m not a serial killer )
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Ha ha! Hilarious, Dylan. I’m glad that tip works!! Good news. Thank you.
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NO problem I just love scare the complete and total crap outta people. And now I have a great excuse
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So happy I could help! Thanks, Dylan.
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